No one will love you
Until you love yourself
No one can complete you
Until you
Yourself are complete
You must get to the place
Where you don't need another
But you can enjoy another
Without attachment
Where you can give love
Without the need of receiving it back
Love without conditions
You are not you plus the other person
You existed before the other person
And you will exist long after
You will always be yourself
And knowing that
You can give more
When it comes to love and relationships
You can think of it like a mirror
If you love yourself
You will find more people
Have love for you
If you respect yourself
You will find more people have respect for you
If you value yourself
You will find more people value you
If you are mostly happy, joyful and positive
You will find you attract
Mostly happy, joyful and positive people
And relationships
So don't focus on finding someone to complete you
Focus on completing yourself first
Then the right people will show up
If you do the work on you
If you become the person you want in your life
It will happen for you
And you will be thankful you didn't give up
Believe that
Love is the most powerful force
On Earth
Some say that finding
The genuine connection today
Is harder than ever
But that's not reason to give up trying
That's not reason to give up believing
You deserve it
Knowing you deserve it
Real love will find you
When your ready for it
Real love will find you
When you understand that you don't
Search for love in others
But you find it in yourself first
We all deserve to be loved
And the first step on the journey to real love
Is to love yourself first
Next you will need to the work
Rather than waiting for someone else to come along and
Fix you
And finally
Now is the time to let go of the habits
That have kept you from getting hurt
But are also holding you back from a
True partnership
Built on love and respect
So
If you're asking will I ever find love
You must stop doing this five things first
Number one
You have to stop looking
For others to love you
And instead love yourself first
In the search for real love
The very first step must be loving one self first
If you don't love the special being
That you are
How can you expect anyone else to
If you were looking
For a true partner
To share your life with
Someone who will work with you
And encourage you to leave your
Best life
You have to treat yourself that way first
When you find yourself frustrated
In your search for a loving and respectful partner
Take a step back to
Examine how you honestly feel
And treat yourself
Take a close look at yourself talk
And begin to shutdown the negativity
That we can often inflict on ourselves
When you are at peace with who you are
And you are constantly waiting for someone
To fix you
You will likely attract toxic people
Who are looking for someone to take advantage of
Don't fall into this trap
Take the time to do the difficult
Self work
That makes you an attractive partner
And will help you to attract
Loving and respectful
People into your life
When you want someone else to do the heavy lifting
For you
You will likely be disappointed
With the caliber of people
Who enter your life
When you know that you are whole
And complete person
Who is looking for a partner
Rather than a savior
You are opening yourself up
To attracting like minded people
Who are also seeking someone
To walk the journey of life with
Number two
Stop wearing mask
And trying to appear perfect
Be yourself
The most common mistake
People make
When looking for a real connection
Is inauthenticity
True love will never find you
If you aren't ready to reveal
Your true self
If you want someone to love you despite your faults
You must be ready to do the same for them
False advertising
Has never been higher
Tinder, Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram
Are all at times authenticity killers
People seem more obsessed with appearing perfect
Than ever before
If you want love
Be yourself
Your raw true authentic self
Flaws and all
Learn to love who you are
And stop hiding it from the world
One day someone will fall for who you are
Not how you wish to be perceived
If you're always wearing a mask
Covering up your real self
How could anyone ever love you
For who you are
Real love
Can only come to those who are real themselves
Remember
The right person is always waiting for you
To reveal your real self
All the wrong people will always be available
For the masked you
Most people don't learn this until much later in life
So start expressing your true character today
Because you never know who is watching
Number three
Stop expecting someone
To be something you are not giving back
This is the concept of the mirror
Most people aren't actively
Looking for someone who is negative
Pessimistic, lazy or uninspiring
You set the standard for the type of person
You want in your life
If you want a particular type of person
You must mirror that quality
If you want someone fit and healthy
You must be a mirror of that person
You want someone who always sees the positive
In every situation
Mirror that mindset with your own outlook
If you want someone with drive and ambition
Ask your self
If you possess those characteristics
Like attracts like
Mirror the person you want
And that connection will happen
Much more naturally
Finding genuine happiness within yourself
Is one of the most important steps
To making a genuine connection with someone else
Number four
Stop hiding
Nothing will come to you
In this life
If you are hiding from it
Nothing will come if you are running scared
If you want something
You're gonna have to be brave and put yourself
Out there
If you don't put yourself out there
No one will ever be able to find you
Sure this wont work for every time
But it will never work
If you never put yourself out there
Become someone capable of loving
And being loved
Self worth
The stories you tell yourself
Become your reality
So do that work on your self
The real deep self worth that creates
A better you
Because the better you feel about you
The better
You're gonna show up in the world
The better you show up
The better your relationships
Number five
Stop holding on to comfortable habits
That are holding you back
There are a lot of habits that
You know don't serve you well
But you've become comfortable with the
Perceived protection that they offer
Habits that you know are not helpful
On your quest to find true love
But you may be reluctant to give them up
If you want to find love
You would have to make sacrifices
If this is your situation
Remember that life's greatest growth
Comes when you leave your comfort zone
Don't let feeling comfortable and safe
Hold you back from a full and vibrant life
That can lead to the love of your life
Opening yourself up
And allowing emotional vulnerability
Is an essential part of finding true love
Let go of the defense mechanisms
And withdraw strategy that have
Kept you from getting hurt
And also hold you back from finding love
Do you recognize yourself
In some of this five things
To stop doing
If you want to find love
If you do
It's time to get down
To the hard work
That is necessary to get you
To a place where you can attract
True love
Yes
It may be scary
To let go of this behavior's
And mindset that have protected you
From emotional hurt
But if you truly want
To find love
You really have no choice
Let your light shine brightly
Bravely be yourself
And like moths to a flame
You will attract the right people
Make sure you mirror
The characteristics you find important
And you will find love
And never forget
No one will love you
Until you love yourself